I can’t believe I’m posting this.
Posted by: Silmy Risman on: December 3, 2008
Okay.
Just note that I’m aware that the content of this post -for some people- is totally overrated. Tapi karena gw lagi sangat bodo-amat mode: ON, sebaiknya gw langsung menulis dan buru-buru nge-post before I change my mind and not ever post this at all.
So here goes, around two days ago, I assured myself that I did not want to marry young.
I mean, with all the waking up to the same person every God-given day, the must-texts and hovering daily phone-calls, the Oh-my-God responsibilities and literally always being there for that one person and plus the fact that my sister didn’t say it’s a good idea; I dropped the case. No marrying young for me.
Or so I thought.
The next day, I overheard my Mom talking with my auntie Ay over the phone,
here’s a glimpse of what th conversation was about;
Mom: “Iya, Ay, Besok deh ya, kita mampir..”
Bu Ay: “Iya deh Kak. Emang kita telat banget ya? Bawa apa ya?”
Mom: “Ya telat-telat banget sih nggak. Mereka nikahnya tanggal 4 kemaren kok. Bawa yang kemaren kita beli aja..”
Bu Ay: “Oh yaudah kalo gitu. Ay malah baru tau mereka nikah pas kakak nelfon kemaren, Ay pikir mereka masih pacaran..”
Mom: “Ohya? Kakak malah ga tau mereka sempet pacaran..”
Bu Ay: “Ya iyalah. orang masih muda banget gitu. Semua juga kaget. Berapa sih umurnya? 19?”
Mom: “Ya sekitar gitulah Ay. 19-20 an..”
Bu Ay: “Hmm.. “
Mom: “Yaa.. Abis kalo udah yakin mah udah aja, daripada dosa kan?”
Bu Ay: “Iya juga sih. Hehe. Ay mah nggak kepikiran aja nikah waktu umur segitu..:
Mom: “Iyalah. Banyak yang mesti dibenahin sbelum ngambil langkah sebesar itu..”
Bu Ay: “He’eh. Insha Allah itu keputusan paling baiklah ya Kak..”
Mom: “Amiin. Kita doain aja, semoga mereka bisa dijadikan contoh yang baik..”
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Now I have this question in mind:
If you already ‘found’ that person you want to spend your whole life with, your family (and that persons’) like & accept you wholeheartedly, and you (or nobody else in this matter) has nothing against or to hold you back, would it be a strong enough arguement to.. marry? Like, uhm.. now?
Quotes of today!
Posted by: Silmy Risman on: December 3, 2008
“Berhenti sejenak bukan berarti menyerah..”
- Nantiasa, 2008
Definitely, maybe.
Posted by: Silmy Risman on: December 2, 2008
Girl: ‘So why do you wanna marry me?!’
Boy: *sighes* ‘Here. I wanna marry you because you’re the first person I want to look at when I wake up in the morning, and the only one I want to kiss good night.
Because.. first time that I saw these hands (taking the girls’ hands and holding them gently in his), I couldn’t imagine not being able to hold them.
But mainly, when you love someone as much as I love you, getting married is the only thing left to do. So will you, uhm, marry me?’
Girl: ‘Definitely. Maybe. Eumm.. Walk me home?’
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Nice movie. A good watch, Ryan Reynold :)
You’re JUST a boy.
Posted by: Silmy Risman on: December 2, 2008
Even just for a day
I’d roll out of bed in the morning
And throw on what I wanted and go
Drink beer with the guys
And chase after girls
I’d kick it with who I wanted
And I’d never get confronted for it
Cause they’d stick up for me
If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I’d be a better man
I’d listen to her
Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
Cause he’s taken you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed
If I were a boy
I would turn off my phone
Tell everyone it’s broken
So they’d think that I was sleeping alone
I’d put myself first
And make the rules as I go
Cause I know that she’d be faithful
Waiting for me to come home (to come home)
If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I’d be a better man
I’d listen to her
Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted (wanted)
Cause he’s taken you for granted (granted)
And everything you had got destroyed
It’s a little too late for you to come back
Say it’s just a mistake
Think I’d forgive you like that?
If you thought I would wait for you
You thought wrong
But you’re just a boy
You don’t understand (Yeah you don’t understand)
How it feels to love a girl someday
You wish you were a better man
You don’t listen to her
You don’t care how it hurts
Until you lose the one you wanted
Cause you’ve taken her for granted
And everything you have got destroyed
But you’re just a boy——-
Dua mingguan yang lalu, Mamte yang tau banget kalo gue suka Beyonce nanyain; “Syl, udah denger lagunya Beyonce yang baru?” Dan nggak lama, dia mentranfer lagu itu ke playlist hp gue. Mulailah gue denger dan suka. Yaahh.. suka karena ngerasa & ngerti banget apa yang coba disampaikan sama B lewat lagu itu.
At the end of the week, ditengah ngerjain tugas-tugas yang menumpuk, Mamte bilang; “Syl, udah liat videoclipnya?” Dan gue langsung nonton di laptopnya, dan gue makin mencelos aja. Hmf. Makin dapet arti lagunya deh.
Beberapa hari yang lalu, Leslie bilang sama gue kalo lagu ini mesti banget didengerin ama seluruh cowok di dunia, dan gue menambahi; juga dicerna dan di pahami sama mereka. Really, it’s a very honest song.
Hope you like it as much as I do.
Harusnya lo tau.
Posted by: Silmy Risman on: December 1, 2008
After all this time, yang begini masih aja harus di verbalisasikan?
Coba dirasa, nggak usah ditanya.
Ck ah. Lama.
Gue sayang banget kali sama lo.
Kebo.
Tentang Usaha.
Posted by: Silmy Risman on: December 1, 2008
Orang #1: “Ya makanya, lo usaha dong!”
Orang #2: “Ini tuh gue udah usaha banget, kali..“
Orang #1: “Jyah. Itu dia masalah lo. Usaha lo tuh masih kurang keliatan. It takes more effort to get more impact..“
Orang #2: “Hahahaa *tertawa sinis* semua usaha gue yang lo liat, itu baru yang nggak keliatan..”
Orang #1: *??!!* “Err.. Maksudnya usaha buat siapa nih?”
Orang #2: “… Lo.“
Orang #1: *SKAK MAT*
Intolerable!
Posted by: Silmy Risman on: November 27, 2008
I see myself as a pretty tolerable person. I mean, I’m pretty opened and okay to a LOT of things.
So when I say something is intolerable, I mean it. It simply means that whatever happened or a person did is, with my boundaries, off limits.
This is the only ‘intolerable’ thing I can think of right now, just incase you like me better when I’m not angry or digusted. That intolerable thing (or acts) so far is:
A guy who can’t keep his hands or his eyes to himself.
One word, baby boy: disrespect. Need I say more?
BLARGH!
They call it: underachieving.
Posted by: Silmy Risman on: November 25, 2008
What’s happening to me??
I’m so stressing out.
I HAVE GOT TO GET MY ACT TOGETHER.
Like.. NOW.
:((
And it goes on and on and on and..
Posted by: Silmy Risman on: November 25, 2008
Review Jurnal The Blog is Serving Its Purpose:
Self-presentation Strategies on 38.pitches.com,
Forgiveness or breakup: Sex differences in respons to a partners’ infidelity,
Etiologi dan Intervensi Somatoform, DAN
Essay Hubungan Interpersonal.
—–
This is a cry for help.
OHANA
Posted by: Silmy Risman on: November 24, 2008
“Ohana means family, and family means nobody gets left behind..”
-Lilo & Stitch
Bener banget. Gue punya keluarga baru nih, namanya; PSYCAMP2008.
They’re warm, they’re bright, they’re fun, they’re awesome!
It was my first, camping and all, but I was blessed to have the chance to go through it all with such joy.
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To all the people that encouraged me to come along; Mom, Mel, Urr, Baby.
To all the seniors who lent me their memories to mold up some of my own; Kak Faisal & Kak Facil, Kak Mario, Kak Emon, Kak Lia, Kak Dexon..
To my new homegrrls; Didie, Fitri, and Mimit.
To him, for the getaway in general 
To the extra-cool newbies; Vaness, (yes, I will keep calling you that), Sapto, Pipet, Herman, El.
The top-notch advance team who went beyond. Job well done, guys! *standing ovation*
TRONTON TIGA where I belong and for their bond, all the luck to be placed with y’all.
And last but not least to the team who made this happen; All of you mentioned above,
THANK YOU. For such an amazingly wonderful experience.
Worth every second of it.
Bottom line is;
Hey, it feels so damn good to have and be a part of a family, like ours.
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